Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Love and Logic

* note: Highline's homework policy is to aim for 10 mins per grade level per night Monday through Thursday nights. So an average 3rd grade student should have around 30 minutes a night but it could be as little as 20 minutes or as much as 40 minutes. If it becomes more than this due to battles in your home or because of the content of the homework- please let your child's teacher know ASAP.

Ms. Whalen and Ms. Wetzel


As a kid, I had a love-hate relationship with homework. I loved those days when I didn't have any, and I hated the days I did. As a "mature" educator and parent, my attitudes have changed...but only a little bit.
Sure, homework is important! In fact, it doesn't take long to find research that shows how appropriate homework assignments contribute to improved academic achievement. Nevertheless, I still have a love-hate relationship with the stuff. I love when children get appropriate homework...but I hate seeing so many who repeatedly have unhealthy homework experiences.
Much of the problem seems to stem from very conscientious educators and parents who don't understand the key characteristics of appropriate homework:
  • It leaves time for the child to contribute to the family by doing chores.
  • It leaves time for the child to play and enjoy being a child.
  • At least 95% of the content should represent repetition and review of things the child already knows how to do correctly.
  • The parent helps only as long as the interaction remains positive.
  • It's the child's work...not the parent's work.
In our Schoolwork / Homework Package, we teach a variety of strategies for helping parents and educators keep homework positive and productive.  One strategy involves systematically noticing only the parts of their homework they have done well. Helping your child learn to feel good about their stengths will help them have the energy and courage to keep working on their weaknesses.
 Thanks for reading! Our goal is to help as many families as possible. If this is a benefit, forward it to a friend.
 
Dr. Charles Fay

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